FAQ
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People use online dating services for many different reasons, with varying levels of success. Many do find what they are looking for, whether that is a casual date, a committed relationship, or an intimate encounter. But for the most part, users who find compatible partners are the ones who are willing to dedicate time and effort to the process. While an online dating service can make the search for love far more efficient, it can't do all the work for you, nor can it create potential matches out of thin air. Your success will likely depend on your dedication, as well as the number of available singles in your area.
There are a few inherent risks when meeting strangers online, but as long as you take basic precautions and use common sense, online dating can be at least as safe as traditional dating, if not safer. One issue to consider is the security of the data that you include in your profile. It is a good idea to check the terms and conditions of any website before posting information about yourself. You should also consider how exposed your profile will be, and how much personal information you are comfortable exposing to the public. Since you can contact matches through an online dating service's internal communication system, there's no need to reveal your address or phone number. When you do communicate with other members, keep in mind the possibility that any stranger could be a liar or a scammer. Proceed with caution and listen to your instincts. Don't enter into any financial arrangements with anyone you've just met. Don't feel obligated to meet every match in person. Wait until you feel comfortable, and when you do schedule a first date, choose a well lit, public place, and tell a friend where you are going.
Yes, we do offer same sex matching. Most popular dating services allow users to search for same or opposite sex matches, but few are designed to cater to bisexual users. One possible solution would be to create two accounts on the same service.
Unfortunately, many users will not bother to respond to messages from matches who do not fit their criteria, and some receive so many messages that it becomes impossible to respond to every single one. Don't take unanswered messages as a personal rejection. Instead, consider whether you are pursuing matches with compatible desires. Most online dating services allow you to see what other members are seeking in a match, so you can gauge whether they are likely to reciprocate your interest. It's perfectly acceptable to communicate with several matches at once, so don't hesitate to indicate interest in multiple matches simultaneously, increasing your chances of receiving a response. You might also tailor your messages and profile in order to make them more appealing. For example, overly aggressive messages or messages with poor spelling and grammar are less likely to receive a response.
It's important to create a profile that represents you in a flattering light. Poor spelling or grammar tend to make a poor first impression, so use proper English, not Internet slang, and proofread your profile carefully. Many users do not take the time to read profiles that do not include a picture, so be sure to upload at least one clear photo of yourself. Mentioning specific interests is a good way to attract attention from matches with similar interests. Most online dating services offer more detailed and specific advice on how to make your profile as appealing as possible, and some even offer services to help improve your profile, for an additional fee.
Meeting every potential match right away would be unwise and inefficient, but waiting too long can also be a waste of time. Once mutual interest has been established and you and your match both feel comfortable, it's a good idea to plan a date in a public, well-lit location, so that you can determine whether there is a spark. To email back and forth for weeks or months before meeting, only to find that there's no spark, can be frustrating and disappointing. If you are looking for a date or a relationship, you want to avoid inadvertently devoting too much time communicating with a match who isn't looking for anything more than an online flirtation. It depends on the frequency of your emails, but for most people, it makes sense to wait at least a few days to a week, but not more than a few weeks or a month.